A Lovely Hodgepodge

 
Joyce asks the questions, and we provide the answers. See how others answered at From This Side of the Pond.

1. What's something recent that had you 'tickled pink'? 

Realizing that I'll be able to attend a sporting event in another country...as long as I can get tickets for it.

2. A bed of roses, everything's coming up roses, every rose has it's thorn, stop and smell the roses, rose-colored glasses, a rose among thorns...which rosy expression might currently be applied to your life in some way? 

Stop and smell the roses. I'm learning to slow down and not get stressed about the stuff I have no control over.

3. What makes you feel loved and appreciated? 

Being spoken to with kindness and respect.

4. A box of chocolates or a bouquet of fresh flowers-what's your pleasure? Any special plans for Valentine's Day? 

Give me a box of chocolates any day! Flowers just die but chocolates give me a lot more enjoyment. No plans for Valentine's Day except attending Mass for a special couple who will be celebrating their 50th Wedding Anniversary on the 14th. 

5. Share a favorite quote, scripture, or song lyric relating to love. 

Love is patient, love is kind. It is not jealous, it is not pompous, it is not inflated,
it is not rude, it does not seek its own interests, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury,
it does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth.
It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never fails.
                                        ---1Corinthians 13:4-8

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

Valentine's Day has never been a big deal to me. I don't know what the big hoopla is about it...You should show the people you love that you love them every day, not on a made-up holiday by the card industry. 

Friday Fotos 2026: #2

 
Friday Fotos is a post where I can dump some photos from the previous week. The goal is to make me more aware of the beauty and fun in my everyday life. 

This week, it's all about the snow we had last weekend. The frigid weather also captured the headlines in the news.

Early morning snow
The view from my back porch when I woke up on Saturday
The view of the snow piled up at the porch door
More snow as the day went on
The view from my living room on Saturday
Cinnamon Roll Skillet Pancake from King Arthur.
The snow blew over the roof; I thought it looked like a folded blanket.
I got out on Sunday to take the dogs for their walk in the park next to my house. We had the park to ourselves.
The sledding hill in the park. I was surprised no one was sledding because it was warmer on Sunday than it was on Saturday.
I think the girls enjoyed getting out; the cold and snow didn't seem to bother them.
Those were all of the pictures I took over this past week. Exciting life, huh? 😁

Share Your Shelf January 2026

Now that I'm back to reading, this link-up is just what I need. Look at the bottom of the post for the hosts, see what others are reading, and for inspiration for new books to read. Here are my books this month:

This book was just okay. I've had it in my Kindle for a long time, and I hope to empty it out so I can fill it back up. There were a lot of storylines in this book, all of them coming together as the characters came to live in the boarding house. After her grandparents, who raised her, passed away, Mary Kate moved to Dublin and had to work menial jobs and live in horrible boarding houses. Just as she is about to throw herself in the Liffey, the postman comes running toward her with a letter. Mary Kate finds out her mother died and left her a lot of money. Everyone loves Mary Kate, and she uses the money for good. In my opinion, the characters weren't able to be fully developed; they were really shallow. Perhaps if there weren't so many characters, it might have been better. 

This is another book I have in my Kindle Unlimited that I'm trying to clear out to make room for more. The setting is Gdansk, Poland. Kasia (Katarina) has been in Warsaw and involved in the Resistance. She moves back to Gdansk after her father, the owner of a chocolate factory, suddenly passes away. Sebastian, her father's partner, takes over the factory since the Gestapo will not allow a woman, especially one who is half-German, half-Poland take over. Kasia's father had plans for Sebastian and Kasia to wed, but she had other ideas. Once Sebastian takes over the factory, Kasia has to act as if she's interested in him in order to keep her Polish mother and her brother safe. She didn't plan on falling in love with a Resistance fighter,  but she did. 
Kasia continued to work for the Resistance, using her new position at the factory to their advantage by delivering coded messages in the chocolate boxes. This period of time is fascinating to me; there were so many little pieces of the puzzle that had to come together for the Resistance. If you're looking for a quick, interesting read that is about WWII, this would be a good one to put on your "To Read" shelf.

This is a "coming of age" story set in Cornwall, England. When Judith's mother and little sister leave to meet her father in Colombo, Ceylon, she finds herself in a boarding school. She meets and becomes friends with Loveday, and instantly becomes one of the family. Judith is only 14 when she begins boarding school; her parents are thousands of miles away and moving farther away. She won't see them for 4 years! I can't imagine being left alone without my mother for that long, especially at that stage of life. Obviously, Judith is a much more confident, stronger teen than I was. 
This book took me a long while to read. I thought it was a good book, but it was easy to put down, do something else, and then pick it back up later. It definitely wasn't a "page turner", in my opinion.
Last month, I shared a Matthew Kelly book that I read during Advent. This short book is all about "The Saint James Master Plan", based on James 3:2b-18. In a nutshell, it's all about being careful what you say, when you say it, how you say it, and why you say it. As in most of Matthew Kelly's books, he repeats things that I've read before. There were some "nuggets" in there, especially the chapter on "Talking to the Devil". Spiritual warfare is real, y'all. As he says, "one immutable truth when it comes to temptation: Don't dialogue with the devil-you cannot win that conversation", and, "Don't surrender the peace in your soul. Keep yourself busy. Pray. The temptation will pass. Learn to prize the peace in your soul above all else." It's not anything I didn't already know, but it was an excellent reminder.
This is a quick read, with, as I said, some real nuggets in there worth highlighting and reviewing.
For Catholics, this book is a must-read classic. This month, it was my "cheat book". There is a podcast called "Catholic Classics", and this was the book that was read and reviewed a couple of series ago. Before the reading of the section of the book, there is a preview of what is going to be read. After the reading, there is some discussion about what was read. So, a lot of chances for retaining! Saint Therese of Lisieux is one of the four female Doctors of the Catholic Church. She is also called "the little flower," and many miracles are attributed to her intercession. She was a Cloistered Carmelite Nun (meaning that she stayed in the monastery and had no contact with the outside world) who died at the age of 24. I've read this book before on my own, but reading it with the podcast brought more meaning to it. It was interesting to read about her younger self (she was a bit of a brat and a definite "daddy's girl"), as well as her life in the monastery. 

Hop Shelf Book Club

The brewery book club that I belong to read 2 books this month. After the last 2, we all decided we needed something light to read. 
Two authors who knew each other in college reunite over the summer. Her editor is anxiously awaiting the new book (which she can't seem to get started). She is a romance writer who is questioning whether love can truly exist; he writes literary fiction and has no belief in "happily ever after".  They make a deal: she will write literary fiction, and he will write a romance book. They agree to write during the week and take the weekend to educate each other on their research techniques. 
This was a good choice for the book club. I missed the discussion meeting because I was under the weather, but I can't imagine that there was anyone who didn't like it. I did get a little tired of the whole "I've got wounds", but other than that, it was a good read.
This is a book that I wouldn't normally read, mainly because of the title. I was very pleasantly surprised by this book. Nell considers herself to be (as the title would suggest) something less than she thinks she should be at this stage of her life. She just broke up with her fiancé and moved back to London from California. She's trying to get her life back together: she finally lands a part-time job, finds a room to rent, and meets Cricket, an 80-something new widow. While friends her age are in her life, the friendship between Nell and Cricket is what makes the book. The ending wasn't a surprise at all, but getting there was fun. And the quotes (mostly by Cricket)!!!
  • Don't worry about getting older, worry about becoming dull.
  • And yet how can the world keep on turning, business as usual, without them in it? As time moves on, the further away you become from the last moment you saw them. They retreat into your past as you travel into the future. The distance between you growing as their voice fades and the memories blur.
  • Embrace your sense of humor, don't ever take yourself too seriously, every day is another chance to laugh instead of cry, and when nothing is certain, everything is a hell of a lot less scary when you make fun of it. Amen.
  • The way I see it, you can grieve for someone and the past, but you've also got to live.
  • It's true what they say: life does go on and joy does return, and often it's in the most unexpected of places, but you never get over losing someone; you just get better at coping with it.
  • Don't worry too much about people liking you; liking yourself is far more important.
  • The best anti-aging secret is to stop looking in mirrors.
  • You never own a book; you just get to look after it until you pass it on to the next person.
  • There is no age limit on adventure. You're not too old, it's not too late, and yes you can.
This is next month's first book; we have another 2-book month in February. Phoebe is an adjunct professor of Victorian Literature and is married to a Philosophy Professor. After he has an affair and leaves her, she tries to go on, but decides to visit a hotel she always wanted to visit and end her life. But...it just so happens that the hotel is having a wedding that weekend and the bride has booked the hotel. They meet in the elevator, and Phoebe tells Lila (the bride) of her plan. Lila is a Bridezilla of the worst kind, but somehow, they form a friendship. Phoebe meets the groom while sitting in the hot tub, and, not knowing he is the groom, strikes up a conversation and finds herself attracted to him. The rest of the book explores the bride & groom's relationship, and Phoebe (being the wise professor) becomes the counselor for everyone. She's a bit of a goody-two-shoes (in my opinion); not very realistic, but it works for the story plot. 
This book was okay; it's not one that I would tell people they must read, but it was okay.

If you need ideas for what to read next, check out the host's blogs:

Slices of Life

A Frigid Hodgepodge

 
Joyce asks the questions, and we provide the answers. See how others answered at From This Side of the Pond.

1. The Winter Olympics kick off on Friday, February 6th...on a scale of 1-10 how excited are you? (1= eh and 10=watching every event all day every day). What's your favorite Winter Olympic sporting event? 

I'd give it about a 3. I don't think the Olympics are what they used to be; maybe because it's changed from being amateur athletes to allowing professionals in. I like watching the speed skaters and the ski jump. Figure skating is also one I enjoy. 


2. In other sporting news, the Superbowl (American football's championship game) will be played on Sunday, February 8th. So tell us...what's your superpower?

Surely I have one, but I can't think of any!


3. Are you a romantic? 

I used to be but now I think I'm more of a realist. I do like to watch the Hallmark Channel from time to time (until it starts getting monotonous!)


4. Blue cheese-yay or nay? How about feta? If you said yes to one or both, what's a dish you like that calls for one of these? 

Blue cheese: not so much. Feta: it depends on what it's on. Like a good Greek Salad. Don't put it on my pizza, though!


5. What's more important-doing what you love or loving what you do? 

I think there's something to be said for both. When I worked, I would say both of those applied. It didn't feel like a job; I loved it and it defined me for most of the 39 years of my life that I worked. If you do what you love, aren't  you also loving what you do? 


6. Insert your own random thought here.

Whew! What a weekend! I like the snow, but I could do without the frigid temperatures. And this whole business of being a homeowner and having to take care of things (or see that things get done) is for the birds. I feel very fortunate that the 1 problem I had (which was actually very minor) was fixable, and one of my sons helped me with that. The problem: I have a gas furnace, and the tube that carries the water out of the condenser is (obviously) outside. So the water in the tube freezes, which causes it to back up and leak onto the basement floor. Now that the basement is complete (for the most part), there is a little bit of worry about the sheetrock getting wet. OS helped me fix the problem, so hopefully it won't happen again. Or will be minimal, at least. 

So, not a huge problem but just a bit of a pain. I didn't lose power (like the Nashville area did the week before) and I have heat, so I'm definitely counting my blessings.

My view on Saturday. Come back on Friday for more pictures!

Friday Fotos 2026: #1

 
Friday Fotos is a post where I can dump some photos from the previous week. The goal is to make me more aware of the beauty and fun in my everyday life. It's not even quite the end of January and I've managed to take some pictures!

Friday, I tried out this new recipe for "Veggie Stew"...except I added some stew meat to it. It's a keeper!
The girls and I spent Saturday lounging, reading, and enjoying a "fire" (courtesy of YouTube) in my office.
I used the remainder of my bird seed from last year and looked out in time to see this cardinal.
We ended up with a dusting of snow when I woke up on Sunday morning. We had some sleet/freezing rain, then quite a bit of rain on Saturday. 
Not very many pictures, but enough to do a quick post! 


Gold Mine Hodgepodge

 
Joyce asks the questions, and we provide the answers. See how others answered at From This Side of the Pond.

1. I live in the south so we're pretty much only talking about the weather right now. Give us a weather report from where you live. Does the kind of weather you're having today affect your mood in some way? 

As I write this on Tuesday at 11:00 a.m., it's 17 degrees F in the Knoxville area. I woke up to 10 degrees, so the warm-up is on its way! Thank goodness we didn't get all of the ice that Nashville did. In my county, there were no reported power outages. I went to Mass Monday morning; the roads were okay except for ramps on/off a US highway. Since I live on a main road, if I can get out of my driveway, then I'm okay.

2.  Avocados, kale, cauliflower and cottage cheese have all had their time to shine. 2026 brings us the year of the cabbage. Is this a vegetable you like? If so, what are some of your favorite dishes that call for cabbage?  

Raw cabbage: yes. Cooked cabbage: EWWW. I like a good coleslaw. My mom used to make it with vinegar, salt, and pepper. I'm not sure if she added anything else to it. 

3. Was a Cabbage Patch Doll a part of your childhood? Or maybe your children's childhood? What's a toy trend from your childhood you remember wanting for your own? 

Cabbage Patch Dolls were a "thing" after my childhood, and my boys definitely weren't interested in it. I wanted an Easy Bake Oven something fierce, but never had one. Maybe Daddy was afraid I'd burn down the house? A childhood friend who lived up the street got one for Christmas, but I don't think she was very interested in it. 

4. Something you've spent a lot of time doing lately? 

Reading. Which isn't a bad thing at all! I've read a couple of books this month that have been in my Kindle Unlimited for a long time; I've got to clear them out so I can load more.

5. Somehow it's the last week of January...sum up your month in just three sentences. 

I'm establishing a routine.
I've been able to stay warm
I've done a lot of reading

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

When I googled Cabbage Patch Dolls to see when they were popular, this popped up:

So if you've got one still in the box, you have a gold mine!


Flashback to 2016

As I wrote the answers to the Wednesday Hodgepodge one week, one of the questions was to post a picture from 10 years ago. This seems to be a trend on social media right now. When I looked back, I realized what a really good year that was, and I had trouble deciding on just one picture. (I actually snuck in 2, but only 1 was from 2016.) That gave me an idea for this post.

January

We started off the year quietly at home

February

We made a trip to Baton Rouge to visit MS for the Law School's First Year Parent Weekend

March


We spent Spring Break camping at Edisto State Park, SC
This is one of my favorite pictures of Laika. This was her first trip to the beach.

April

I met Father Leo Patalinghug during the Council of Catholic Women's Convention. He is also known as the "cooking priest"; he won a "throwdown with Bobby Flay".

June

Pepper was my best dog ever. She was a feisty little girl & was my shadow.

July

We took a camping trip to South Dakota & Colorado. YS joined us
Visiting Prairie Berry Winery was one of our favorite stops

August

Random selfie...apparently we had no idea where we should have been looking!

September

My daddy's last birthday...he turned 91

October

Sisters' Weekend. We had a sister & SIL who weren't able to be there

November

We took a road tour of Sevier County that I saw on a local channel. We saw some interesting things that are close to home.

December

We spent the last days of 2016 in Panama City Beach
It was a very good year, indeed! 

A Frozen Hodgepodge

 
Joyce asks the questions, and we provide the answers. See how others answered at From This Side of the Pond.

1. Ice skating, skiing, sledding, snowshoeing, playing in the snow, or a snowy walk...which winter activity do you choose? Have you done any of these activities so far this winter? 

Snowy walk. While sledding sounds like a lot of fun, I have to remember my age, and I want to avoid any broken bones! I haven't done any this year since we've had zero snow.

2. Everyone is posting pictures from ten years ago on their social media sites so let's jump on the bandwagon too. Share one photo and one thought to go with said photo from the year 2016. And maybe everyone isn't doing this, but many are and we're going to be part of the fun. 

It was interesting to look back to see what I did that year; I had a hard time choosing just one, so maybe a whole post is in order!

During a camping trip to South Dakota/Colorado, we met up with some British friends who were in Colorado visiting her sister. Robert met them a few years earlier (I think) when he was riding his motorcycle through the Continental Divide; they were on a "round the world" motorcycle ride (2-up). I still keep in touch with them every now & then. In fact, this was taken when Robert & I went to Ireland in 2022; they flew over to Dublin for a few days:


So, I cheated and got in 2 pictures for this answer! 

3. What's a trend you hope disappears in this new year? 

I'm going to shamelessly admit I googled "current trends in the USA". Gosh, I'm old! :) I really hope AI videos just go away. I don't know what to believe anymore. I don't foresee it happening, though.

4. 'They' say there's a day for everything and January 21st proves it. National Granola Bar Day. Do you like granola bars? How about just regular granola? Do you like bars of other kinds? 

I'm not big on granola bars. If I'm hungry, they just don't do it for me. But, if I'm going to eat a granola bar, then I'll go for the sweet & salty ones, which defeats the purpose of eating something healthy, I suppose! Sometimes I'll eat some granola on my yogurt, but not very often.

5.  A frozen lake, a trickling stream, a raging river, or a deep well...which one describes something about your life right now? Elaborate as much or as little as you like. 

Can I say all of them? It depends on the day or even the hour right now. I like the idea of a frozen lake or even a trickling stream, but unfortunately, especially this last week, there have been some raging river and deep well moments.

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

The more I think about doing a whole post on what I did 10 years ago, the more I like it. It seems like all I'm posting on this blog is the Hodgepodge. I haven't done my "Friday Fotos" this year since I haven't taken any photos. Maybe my life is more of a frozen lake than I thought it was!

Come back on Friday to see what I did that year.

Head in the Clouds Hodgepodge

 
Joyce asks the questions, and we provide the answers. See how others answered at From This Side of the Pond.

1. What kind of winter person are you-snow lover, fireplace snuggler, winter adventurer, or indoor hibernator? Elaborate. 

I'm a combination of snow lover, fireplace snuggler, and indoor hibernator. I love the snow as long as I don't have to get out in it. Being from the South, we'll have a beautiful snow and (most of the time) it will be gone by lunchtime. I mentioned here that my upstairs fireplace is in a weird spot, so while the idea of hugging the fireplace is ideal, I don't do it a lot because of where it is. Just give me a warm blanket and a good book/movie, and I'm good!

2. The Pantone color of the year is cloud dancer, described as a gentle, billowy off white shade. The color symbolizes 'peace, clarity, quiet reflection, renewal, and a soft reset'. Of the terms just listed which do you need most in your life this winter? 

Clarity. 

3. Every cloud has a silver liningon cloud ninehead in the cloudsstorm clouds gathering, or cloud of suspicion...which 'cloud' idiom do you most relate to currently? Explain. 

Head in the clouds. I'm planning a big semi-solo trip, and I'm hoping I don't have my head in the clouds. When I start having doubts, I remind myself who is putting that doubt in my mind and try to remember that God has this!

4. coconut, cauliflower, cottage cheese, mayonnaise, onions, ranch dressing...of the white foods listed, which would be the hardest for you to give up? Do you like all or any of the foods on the list? 

I don't eat any of them on a daily basis, so I don't have an answer to this one. The only one I don't like on the list is cottage cheese.

5. Thomas Wentworth Higginson is credited with this quote-

"How many lessons of faith and beauty we should lose, if there were no winter in our year." 

Agree or disagree? Tell us why. 

I wholeheartedly agree. It takes rain to appreciate the sunshine. It takes winter to appreciate the spring. It takes bad times to appreciate the good times. 

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

I wrote a couple of posts on my first solo road trip on my travel blog. I managed to get it all in 2 posts!

Share Your Shelf December 2025

 

Now that I'm back to reading, this link-up is just what I need. Look at the bottom of the post for the hosts, see what others are reading, and for inspiration for new books to read. Here are my books this month:

Book Six of The Seven Sisters Series by Lucinda Riley. I didn't feel a connection with this sister (Electra), but what a mess she is! Of course, (spoiler alert) she gets her act together and ends up contributing hugely to society. I didn't think this book was as good as the other ones; we'll see how the next book turns out.
I wasn't sure if I was going to get to this book this month, but I did. And I'm glad I did! I thought the Sun Sister wasn't up to par with the others in this series, but this was definitely was. It finished with a real cliffhanger, so I had to read the last book in the series:
Harry Whittaker is Lucinda Riley's son. He wrote the book for her since she passed away before the book was published. He explains in the Forward that she had notes but hadn't planned on organizing and writing the book, but she ended up getting it in order, and he wrote it after she passed away. Well done, Mr. Whittaker! All of the questions in the previous books are answered.

I'm obsessed with WWII and the Resistance, but I haven't read a book from that period in a while. This book did not disappoint. Based on a couple of real people, this book follows 3 young ladies: 1 in New York, 1 in Poland, and 1 in Germany. The NY and German were real people; the German was a doctor at Ravensbrück. At one point, all of their lives intertwine. I read some of it before I went to bed one night, and I couldn't go to sleep because I kept thinking about the situation. It was tough, for sure. It was an excellent book; I would definitely recommend it. 
This was the Advent read by Matthew Kelly, who is the founder of Dynamic Catholic. Dynamic Catholic hosts yearly Best Advent Ever and Best Lent Ever. During Advent, he took a section of the book and talked about it in short (usually less than 5 minutes) videos. It took me all month to read, but there are some good nuggets in there. The basis of the book is that finding joy is all about slowing down. It made me realize that, since CH's passing, I have learned to slow down. Well, maybe not as much as I should, but I've got a good start on it.
I can sum this book up in one word: WOW. Cam is a literary agent; Luke is a ghostwriter. They have a 9-month-old baby girl, and it's Cam's first day back to work after maternity leave. The day starts off strange when Luke isn't there to help her get Polly ready and take her to daycare. It gets weirder when there's a commotion (with a lot of police), and Cam discovers Luke is involved...and not in a good way. She keeps repeating that Luke is a good person, so how could he have been involved? There are quite a few twists in this book; I guessed one of them correctly, but it didn't take away from the excitement. This is another must-read!

I picked up this book in the bookshop at the Skellig Experience during my trip to Ireland in June. If you know anything about Skellig Michael, this is a must-read. If you don't know about Skellig Michael, you can click here to learn about it.
Eliza is married to James, a Principal Keeper who has been assigned to Skellig Michael. They have 2 young sons, and soon after arrival, discover Eliza is pregnant. The conditions are harsh; in the book, they only have each other until an Assistant and his wife join them. Then the drama begins. I always say that I know it's a good book if it makes me cry, and this one made me cry. It was a fairly quick read; I read most of it in 1 day. 

And now, what (I'm sure) everyone has been waiting for: The Hop Shelf Reads Book.

It is very rare that I would not recommend a book. This one is it. After the first 200 or so pages, I didn't like it. For the next meeting, I actually read over the required number of pages because I had to know what was going to happen. Suffice it to say, that feeling didn't last. Even one member, who said she really liked the book, changed her mind after the third meeting. I have no idea why Mr. Lamb put in some of the things he did; they have no bearing on the book. Suddenly, there would be some random act of perversion that did not need to be included. One lady (who was away for this book) told our facilitator that she read the book 3 times, and told her to encourage us to keep going because the end was worth it. It was not. All I can say is that I'm glad we're done with this one!

If you need ideas for what to read next, check out the hosts' blogs:

Slices of Life

My Joyful Life

Memphis Bridges


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